EQ? Ya right..

Anyone can become angry - that is easy.
But to be angry with the right person, to the right degree,
at the right time, for the right purpose, and in the right way -
this is not easy.

- Aristotle -

Hmm.. Aristotle is right.. It is not easy. But how do we know who is the right person, when is the right time and what is the right way? Human is one complicated creature. If only we come with a manual. If only I have the power to read people's mine. If only I have the power to control myself. If only I have the power to control the situation. 'If only..', one of the greatest mind killer..

Situation..

Another word I'm starting to hate. When something bad happened to us, we always blame the situation. Kalau 'situation' tu manusia, aku rasa dia mesti banyak kali keluar masuk hospital. Tak pun, dah booking bilik kat 'Hotel 6 feet under' kena belasah.

But one thing for sure, we should keep reminding ourselves that everything happens for a reason. Allah knows better. The Almighty has a better alternative route for us. We just need to believe and have faith. Nangis memang nangis la. Sakit hati confirm. But at the end of the day, we are left alone to handle our own emotion. Can't expect others to understand us. Nobody will. Two people will never be in the exact situation..

Semua orang marah, semua orang sakit hati, semua orang ada masalah, tapi yang membezakan kita dengan orang lain adalah cara kita menghadapinya..

Actually, I'm writing this because I want to remind myself..